Your idol does not owe you anything beyond what they give you at official events. The extent of their job is to perform, make CD’s, go on variety/radio shows, do photoshoots, hold fan signs, etc. That is it. Nothing more. If you try and encroach on their life when they are doing a non official activity you are overstepping your boundaries. End of story.
The only comeback I’m waiting for right now is for the hundreds missing in Korea.
Friendly reminder to everyone in the Kpop fandom